Relationship conflict
Experiences January 27th, 2008
Graha malika yoga
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From third bhava occupied by shani which shows negliegience of Guru instruction up to
seventh bhava with Shukra in Vrschika shows that relationship issue will be important event in one’s life,
and it will be connected to ignoring Guru upadesa (as start of problem).
Gajakesari yoga
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Guru is strong in Navamsa and being in tenth from Moon shows moral, famous and knowledgable person,
Guru is Vakri so person is very giving and being eight lord in Lagna person will resign from some position in life.
Upachaya
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Venus is sixth lord in seventh which shows a) seperation b) overmodification in relationsip which means that
person depends more on own intelligence than on mercy and voice of God.
Atmakaraka
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Atmakaraka is Moon and being in tenth bhava in D9 shows person focused on family and community. As
fifth house in navamsa is third house in rasi person is very daring and valorous like lion. Navamsa
Lagna is in eleventh bhava from Rasi Lagna which per Jaimini rules makes person very spiritual oriented.
AmK and BK are in charakaraka replacement which gives dedication to Guru words, which was very inspiring
initially.
Now when Shani is BK it often gives problems with faith and Guru. Here it is 9L and BK in 12H from AK-Moon which
per Pachakadi Sambandha is very bad position and means rejection of good instruction, altough the
digestion and giving of knowledge is perfect which can be seen by benefics occupied 3 and 11 from BK.
Surya in ninth in Navamsa shows skills in Vedanta and Gita, while Shukra being placed in sixth bhava shows
conflicts related to relationship issue. Ketu in twelfth in Rasi add to this picture, luckily Guru
is in Lagna (5 from Varachakra) and can rescue the situation due to wisdom and Shiva blessings.
Arudha Lagna and Upapada
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Seventh from Arudha Lagna is stronger and being occupied by Moon shows very emotional and sensitive person.
Shani in twelfth from it gives person interested in politics, while Budha aspecting eleventh from fifth,
shows person gaining from intellectual pursuits. AL and UL are now in 6/8 relation which gives conflicts.
When Rahu is aspecting AL it gives scandal in ones life. If its graha drsti the bad scar will remain only
in Dasa of planet, while for Rasi drsti it will be remembered for long. Dispositor of Rahu shows cause,
here its Libra Rasi and this tell us scandal related to relationship due to own parakrama (3 from AL) and
weak faith (a9 yuti rahu). Upapada in ninth shows that this will be in place of temple, where the native
was a leader LL and 10L are engaged in parivartana yoga.
Om Tat Sat

May 25th, 2008 at 1:28 pm
Namaskar ,
How much important of rashi in marrige compability?
June 4th, 2008 at 6:45 am
Respected Rafal Guruji,
Namaskar.
I request you to kindly go through this horoscope, which I referred to you earlier for Raja bhanga yoga.
Female - DOB- 17-02-1986
TOB 10-15 PM
POB - Chennai (Tamilnadu, India)
While trying to cope with the set-back in studies, this female came into contact with a former (childhood) school mate who used to console her on this set back. With nearly 8 month communication by e-mail, and by over the phone and rare meetings, these two say that they have fallen in love with other. There is no acceptance from the parents of both.The girl comes from a traditional Brahmin family and the boy is a non- brahmin, who speaks a different mother -tongue and a non-vegetarian. He is even shorter than her by 1 foot!
They seem to be ready to defy parents and marry. The girl’s parents are not ready to accept the proposal and are ready to dis-own the girl and not to have any truck with her. This seems to have an effect on her , in that she is left with nearly a year-long studies at the end of which her father’s cooperation may be needed for getting her graduation certificate. She seems to be weighing the options.Since the boy is in a far away town and is not so financially well-off, it seems the girl would prefer to ‘use’ her parents for her up-keep until she graduates (in March/ April 2009).But there are fears in the parents that she is planning secret marriage with him in the coming days.
My queries are
1. will she change?
2. or will she rush into a secret marriage - as suspected by her parents?
3. or will she come out of this and be with her parents?
4. Ironically this is her 3rd serious affair. The first one arranged by her parents flopped(in 2003). The second one was with her classmate (in 2005-06)with whom she fell apart after she could not bear his suspicion about her character. The present one is the 3rd one.
Dear Rafalji, I request you to analyze her horoscope and give your opinion, so that her parents may be able to prepare themselves for any eventuality. If any remedials are there, please prescribe them.
with humble regards,
Ranjana.
June 6th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Dear Rafalji,
When Venus is placed second from the Sun, the native will have to ‘give’ to the society and hence ‘give up’ or sacrifice his relationships. i have capricorn ascendant and venus is in 10th house which with mercury. while the sun is 9th house with ketu. venus is aspected by jupiter in second house. From arudha lagna sun is in first house and venus is in second house. in D9 with leo ascendant the sun and venus is in 10th house. which planet will dominate as they both are well place. what can be the reason of conflict?
Regards,
manasi
June 21st, 2008 at 2:03 pm
sir,
i have been experiencing severe relationship conflicts with my younger brothers over division of property inherited from father.kindly let me know what planets are causing it and if a remedy is possible. dob 15nov. 1943, tob 00hours 42min(am),pob kanpur ,india.i understand that younger brothers are idicated by third house.i wonder if the rule applies to the immedite younger brother or all younger brothers(i have three younger brothers.
with best regards
kkdave
July 7th, 2008 at 9:59 am
Dear Rafalji
namaskar
dob-21/12/1981
place-calcutta
time-13:35 p.m
female
aries lagna, tula rashi, swati nakshatra
jupiter and moon in 7th house libra.I m confused as to whether its good or bad. some say its good as its a gaj kesari yoga, moon rules 4th house and jupiter 9th house while some say tht its leads to very unhelathy married life as jupiter is in the house of enemy, venus, also both moon and jupiter are in the nakshtra of rahu i.e swati.and jupiter aspects the 3rd house of gemini where rahu is placed.currently running jupiter MD and rahu AD.
would be gratefull if u can share your views on this.and if this a bad yoga for marriage wat are the remedies for the same, wat mantra should be chanted???
also wat does mars in 8th house in navamsa, venus b/w sun and mars (malefics) in navamsa. wat does this say abt marital relations.
Regards
Jyoti